Appreciate Your Scales
Begin to Understand Their Evolving Nature to Maximize Your Connection
Don’t you find it curious how you naturally get along with some people, and others seem like a riddle?
There is an explanation behind it. You see, some personalities are compatible with yours. They understand your sense of humor, and they share your same goals and perspectives on life. Then, others are focused on different concerns and it’s harder to make them part of your intimate circle.
But don’t worry! A few simple tricks will help you understand the psyche of that friend, acquaintance, cousin, or crush, with whom you don’t seem to get along so well. And all from the sacred language of Astrology, the oldest psychology known to mankind.
Of course, each of us has a unique and special soul, but our Sun zodiac sign grants us great insights about the way we perceive reality, what kind of actions we value, in what type of situations we feel comfortable and much more. Although we all give that personal touch to our zodiac sign energies, we cannot deny the great influence they have on our personality. After all, we all come from the same source of creation, and we are all connected in one way or another.
Now, in this article, we will focus on the zodiac sign of Libra. This sign is symbolized by the scales, representing the harmony and justice that comes when we consider other people. It is the first sign in the zodiacal wheel to realize the importance of relationships and to understand that there is no point in achieving personal goals if there is no one to share them with.
So read to the end and find out everything about the personality of these individuals, their interests, their likes and dislikes, and how to get to their heart in no time.
Libra’s main personality traits
This is like detective work. Before engaging in a relationship with your Libra partner, you must first know everything you can about their psyche.
As mentioned above, people born under the sign of Libra feel truly complete when they share their life with their loved ones. They are like beautiful geishas who enjoy embellishing their appearance and making themselves look as attractive as possible to the delight of others.
They are social butterflies with a busy schedule of social and cultural events. They are fond of good music, tasteful art, fashion, and anything that adds beauty to the world and the people in it. So, approaching them and striking up a conversation won’t be a problem. However, if you are somewhat shy and reserved, they will rather give you space to avoid making you uncomfortable.
As they are air signs, they are very good with communication and words. In fact, many Librans specialize in public speaking, as their ability to dialogue is outstanding. That’s why they are also often chosen to be mediators when two people are fighting and can’t seem to find an agreement. They can understand opposing points of view or place themselves in other people’s shoes, but always from a rational and objective standpoint. Empathy means connecting with others through feelings or through the pain someone may be suffering. In the case of Libra, they connect more easily with others from a mental perspective than an emotional one.
Also, these signs know very well how to please others, and this sometimes jeopardizes their authenticity. They care about pleasing their friends and acquaintances, so they sometimes agree to do things they don’t really want to do.
If someone asks for advice, Libra will say what they want to hear instead of what comes from their heart. Moreover, if they don’t like someone, Libra will never let it be known. They may confess it to others, but not to the person in question, whom they will continue to treat as if nothing is wrong.
Well, now you have a great snapshot of the personality of these signs. They are overall friendly, kind, and fun, but you must make an extra effort to reach their core and get close to them.
How to relate with Libra?
The question is not so much how to relate, as you will have virtually no obstacle to do so, since Libra people are very easy to interact with. However, the question is how do you know if you are having a real relationship with these signs and are not just another one of the pack?
Libra has many friends but only a few whom they really trust. They tend to go by what others like and listen to what they have to say. Thus, a good sign they want you to be part of their circle is if they start telling you about their life, their aspirations, their favorite music, etc. And if you’re still not sure if Libra likes you, ask around! If they are not interested in you, they’ll be quick to hide it, but they won’t mind telling their friends.
Libra does not like to take control of their relationships, so you should put some effort to make a move and propose an activity to do. If you opt for music or cultural shows you will get a favorable response, since, as we mentioned before, these signs are drawn to art, are highly cultured, and also very intellectual. You will also have to insist on listening to their true thoughts about important issues as they struggle to be sincere about it if they don’t know you well.
Now, if you are too withdrawn, lonely, and shy, Libra will probably tire of your company and look for someone more similar to them to share their time with. These signs hate being left alone at home with nothing to do, and if that’s your idea of an ideal weekend, start getting used to a different lifestyle.
Also, while Libra takes care of their appearance, they welcome others to do so. This is by no means a shallow approach. Libra simply appreciates others going that extra mile to make them happy, as a token of appreciation.
Even if it takes a while to cement their relationships, having a Libra in your life is a true blessing. They will always be there to lend a friendly ear when you need it, to back you up, and to remind you of all the beautiful attributes that make you so special. They are not conflictive and always strive for harmony and balance in their relationships, which is very refreshing. They listen to your viewpoint without criticizing it and make you laugh even in the most dramatic times.
Libra is one of the most popular signs of the zodiac for a reason. They are very sociable and know how to win the hearts of even the toughest of people. If it’s not for their strong charisma and communication skills, it’s for their attractive figure and magnetic gaze.
However, they don’t like to be in control of situations or direct their relationships. They are easygoing and adapt to what others prefer without complaining. Libras don’t like to argue and therefore tend to agree with their friends to avoid fighting. It is only after getting very intimate, mostly with their romantic partners, that they feel safe to speak their mind and be straightforward without fear of offending anyone.
And this does not mean they are false or superficial. They wish with all their heart for others to feel comfortable in their company and will do their best to make it happen, even if it requires holding back a few things. Thanks to Libra, the world is a much fairer and friendlier place. They are indispensable souls in today’s individualistic society. They remind us to think before we act and to consider the people who may be affected by our behavior.